My spoken "No" is holy, and wholly magickal when I need to protect my boundaries.
I don't believe in God or gods/goddesses, at least not the way. most people do. For me there is no benevolent deity that grants wishes, nor a vengeful one that metes out punishment (deserved or not). There is no sentient being watching the game and keeping score.
The full moon in June is perfect timing for a love spell. Whether you wish to attract the person you desire, bring romance back to a current relationship, or rescue a love on the rocks, this spell can help.
All of this means lilac have a strong connection to the Crone, and the dark of the moon is the perfect time for calling on Crone to ask for guidance and insight. You will need a black candle, an amethyst and a lilac blossom.
This, the start of a new year, is the most magical time of all. Forget resolutions, this is the time for setting intentions, for magick is born of intentions.